Even though scientific research has proven race to be more a social construct than a biological reality, race is a significant factor in human interaction—and not a factor that needs to be ignored. While conversations about race and racial issues may be uncomfortable, these conversations are also an opportunity to grow, to understand, to build bonds. And in these days when ideas of “separation” and “division” and “other-ness” are so much in the spotlight, building bonds and understanding our brothers and sisters who look, worship, live, and speak differently than we do—is a very worthwhile use of our time. Many people like to say things like, “There’s only one race—the human race,” and they believe that to be a more uplifted thought about humanity.
While the statement is spiritually accurate, practically speaking, it’s limited and simply not reflective of the day-to-day reality in which we live. Another statement that tends to go along with that idea is, “I don’t see color.” While that statement is usually well-intended and meant to infer that the person is not biased or prejudiced and they don’t make differences based on a person’s race, what it means is actually something quite different. To tell a person of color that you don’t see color—is to tell them that you don’t see the totality of who they are. That statement says to them that the life experience they are having, which, of course, is impacted by their race, is not all that significant, interesting or worthwhile.
It’s completely acceptable to acknowledge someone’s race; in fact, it’s preferable and can lead to real understanding and bonding. That doesn’t mean race needs to be a constant topic of discussion, but neither should it be intentionally ignored because it’s uncomfortable. The Divine is expressed in a variety of languages, cultures, lifestyles and races. Let us be courageous enough to move beyond the fear and discomfort and embrace each other for all that we are and for all that we bring to the world.
Affirmation: There is one Source and from that Source are many expressions. I acknowledge the Perfection of each and every human being and the fullness of their unique, individual expression.
Invitation to Action: If you have contact with people from other races/ethnicities, invite someone out for coffee or lunch. If you don’t have that exposure, consider joining a local Meet Up group that provides opportunities to meet people from all walks of life at meetup.com There are numerous websites that offer opportunities to connect with people, in person or online. Take the leap—expand your horizon.